Find My Father
Find my father is a regular request for us here at FinderMonkey.
We locate people you have lost touch with so when we we're instructed to locate a woman’s father it was another day at the office for us. We receive between 20 and 30 requests per day to locate individuals where contact has been lost. Our expert researcher’s looks at each case for you and leave no stone unturned when it comes to tracing people. If you want to locate your own father then we offer a service to do so.
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The work we do is vital to the people we are working for. Reconnecting someone with their sister, brother, father or other family member can be very emotional for all parties which is why we take our work so seriously. It is our policy that each case is worked in full and everything is done within our power to locate the person you have lost touch with.
A particular case stands out, when a female client contacted us from Africa. She had instructed us to find her father in the UK. She emailed us all the information she had and explained that her biological father had been travelling through South Africa in the early seventies and had a short romance with her mother before returning to the UK. Consequently, when our client was born in Africa, her father was already back in the UK completely unaware of her existance.
The information she had on him was sketchy at best, she knew his full name, including his middle name and the area of the UK he was from, this was Brighton. She was certain that he was born in Brighton too. Apart from these few facts, she had no other information relating to her father but what she did have was a desperate need to know more about her father and where she had come from. This is a common theme with people who do not know their fathers; they want to know who their father is and what he is like.
We began our investigation to locate her father. We used our in-depth systems to obtain a birth record for her father; there were three possible matches in the Brighton area around the time that he would have been born. This was a fantastic result, to narrow the search down to just three matches in one search is unusual but we were very grateful that this was the case.
We looked at each of the three matches on our systems and discounted one immediately as he had the wrong middle name. This left us with two possible matches, at this stage we spoke to our client again and ran back through the details we had found, liaising with our clients is an integral part of our success rate being so high. She had spoken to her mother again and from the conversation, we managed to work out that one of the two remaining matches was too old to be our customer’s father, we finally had a match.
The next step in the process was to make contact with the father, this had to be done sensitively, and luckily, we are experts at handling these situations delicately and with tact. As we have access to mobile phone data, we were able to contact him via his mobile phone. We introduced ourselves and explained the situation and understandably, he was shocked after almost 40 years, he did however take the news well. We gave him the information we had and then as we always do, we left our details and asked him to contact us within seven days to let us know how he wanted to proceed, we do have to respect people’s privacy so if he had not wanted any further contact that would have been the end of the matter. He contacted us the next day to inform us that he would like to speak with his daughter. We supplied her with his contact details and suggested that first contact should be made via email. Relationships that are built back slowly are the ones that last the longest.
That was the end of our involvement but we have heard that since we reunited father and daughter, they have met up in the UK and they now keep in touch with each other. A great result for everyone.
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